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July 11 职场的几句教诲之言不要让入职时间短成为你不做为的借口 就算你和老板睡一张床，这也不足以成为你摆老资格的理由 发挥你的想像力，如牛郎给织女发一封电子邮件要延时多少年 坚持会使你成功，如比尔·盖茨，张瑞敏等；当然频繁跳槽也有可能，如肯德基的创始人（实在想不起叫啥，又懒得查） 当你准备买车时说明你想当老板了，当你在计算买车和租车成本时你已经成为一个好老板。 一个无人敢接的项目摆在你面前，那么一定要接下他并努力做成。就算失败了，那也会是以后一笔宝贵的财富，成功了…… 假如你有经验，那么不要认为经验能代替学历；同理，你有学历也不要以为学历能代替经验 勿拿工作开玩笑 村长→乡长→县长→省长→主席→更高 首先要有目标，目标要在短时间内达到，否则他会使你没有信心，丧失动力。 当你发现有一天你的手下能力都比你强很多时，那么请我喝酒吧！！因为千里马常有，而伯乐不常有。 我习惯于用能力等待机遇，有人习惯于等到机遇再去增长能力~ May 13 Greeting on Mother's DayContent below is cited from a english learning website:
M... is for the million things she gave me,
O... means only that she's growing old,
December 15 5 Lessons to learn in our lifeLESSON 1 A junior manager, a senior manager and their boss are on their way to a meeting. On their way through a park, they come across a wonder lamp.They rub the lamp and a ghost appears. The ghost says, "Normally, one is granted three wishes but as you are three, I will allow one wish each" So the eager senior manager shouted, "I want the first wish. I want to be in the Bahamas, on a fast boat and have no worries." Pfufffff, and he was gone. Now the junior manager could not keep quiet and shouted "I want to be in Florida with beautiful girls, plenty of food and cocktails." Pfufffff, and he Was also gone. The boss calmly said, "I want these two idiots back in the office after lunch at 12.35pm." *MORAL OF THE STORY IS: " ALWAYS ALLOW THE BOSSES TO SPEAK FIRST"* LESSON 2 Standing in front of a shredder with a piece of paper in his hand. "Listen," said the CEO, "this is a very sensitive and important document,and my secretary has left. Can you make this thing work?" "Certainly," said the young executive. He turned the machine on, inserted the paper, and pressed the start button. "Excellent, excellent!" said the CEO as his paper disappeared inside the shredder machine. "I just need one copy." *LESSON II - NEVER, NEVER ASSUME THAT YOUR BOSS KNOWS EVERYTHING.* LESSON 3 An American and a Japanese were sitting on the plane on the way to LA when the American turned to the Japanese and asked, "What kind of -ese are you?" The Japanese confused, replied, "Sorry but I don't understand what you mean." The American repeated, "What kind of -ese are you?" Again, the Japanese was confused over he question. The American, now irritated, then yelled, "What kind of -ese are you ..... Are you a Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese!, etc......???" The Japanese then replied, "Oh, I am a Japanese." A while later the Japanese turned to the American and asked What kind of 'key' was he. The American, frustrated, yelled, "What do you mean what kind of -kee' am I ?!" The Japanese said, "Are you a Yankee, donkee, or monkee?" *LESSON III - NEVER INSULT ANYONE.* ; LESSON 4 There were these 4 guys, a Russian, a German, an American and a French, who found this small genie bottle. When they rubbed the bottle, a genie appeared. Thankful that the 4 guys had released him out of the bottle, He said, "Next to you all are 4 swimming pools, I will give each of you a wish. When you run towards the pool and jump, you shout what you want the pool of water to become, then your wish will come true." The French wanted to start. He ran towards the pool, jumped and shouted"WINE". The pool immediately changed into a pool of wine. The Frenchman was so happy swimming and drinking from the pool. Next is the Russian's turn, he did the same and shouted, "VODKA" and immersed himself into a pool of vodka. The German was next and he jumped and shouted, "BEER". He was so contented with his beer pool. The last is the American. He was running towards the pool when suddenly he steps on a banana peel. He slipped towards the pool and shouted, "S H I T!!!!!!!........." *LESSON IV - THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING, BECAUSE SOMETIMES ACCIDENTS DO HAPPEN.* ; LESSON 5 The organs of the body were having a meeting, trying to decide who was in charge. Each organ took a turn to speak up: Brain......... I should be in charge because I run all body functions. Blood........ I should be in charge because I circulate oxygen for the brain. Stomach...... I should be in charge because I process food to the brain. Legs......... I should be in charge because I take the brain where it Wants to go. Eyes......... I should be in charge because I let the brain see where it's going. A s s h o l e.....I should be in charge because I get rid of your waste. All the other parts laughed so hard and this made the asshole very mad. To prove his point, the a s s h o l e immediately slammed tightly closed and stayed that way for 6 days, refusing to rid the body of any waste whatsoever. Day 1 - Brain got a terrible headache and cried out for relief Day 2 - Stomach got bloated and began to ache terribly Day 3 - Legs got cramps and became unstable Day 4 - Eyes became watery and vision became blurred Day 5 - Blood became toxic and poisoned the body Day 6 - The other organs agreed to let the a s s h o l e be in charge. *MORAL OF THE STORY: NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, OR HOW IMPORTANT YOU THINK YOU ARE, YOU WILL FIND THAT IT IS ALWAYS THE A S S H O L E THAT IS IN CHARGE.*. December 14 calendar turns to DecAlmost all of my classmates has worked for one year.
What is your feeling of the differences between college life and working life?
Is your work creative?
What kind of person do you want to be in 5 years, the key one in your organization?
Is it a peaceful or fluctuating age? Depend on your thoughts and actions.
December 07 CHAOTICI practice reading and pronounciation all day long. After around 3 years graduate student's life, I think there is an obvious decrease about my speech ability. Staring at computer screen for a long time, what remains in my mind is only the letters on the keyboard and the noise from the fan in the cabinet. What a pity! December 04 CITY FOR WORK, NOT FOR LIFE.
Suddenly I feel I am a stranger for the city, and I lost in this big and noisy metropolis.
Sometimes I ask myself what the life is going on in the next 10 years.
The world changes so fast that I can not adapt myself to the environment.
Everyday I eat, sleep, play pc and there is no improvement.
What a decadent life! October 09 do not stay on internet too longA tiger played with a crab. Suddenly the crab used its strong arms to cut the tiger's skin. It was sure that it was so painful that the animal king was too angry and shouted to the crab: How dare you do this on me? The crab was so scared and escaped. But the tiger did not want to forgive the crab and ran after him. At last, the crab ran into a bush and disappeared. The tiger waited at the entrance of the bush and wanted to catch the crab when he came out. Several hours had passed, but without a little crab's trace. The tiger felt tired and laid on the grass. Suddenly he saw a net above his head and a spider on the net. "Got you!" Tiger jumped and caught the spider excited, "damnable crab, I can identify you even you are on a net!"
So do not stay on the net(internet) too long, otherwise you will be caught by a tiger! October 01 献给在东京漂泊的兄弟哥们，你在东京还好么？还记得以前我们每次在一起看A片的时候，你总是叫嚷着要移民日本吗？还记得我们以前去钓鱼的时候，你总是把迫不及待地把每一条鱼生吞活剥了吗？莫了还不忘说句：“suo ni si nai生鱼片就应该这样吃啊！” 已经在那儿待了几个月，感觉怎么样呢？今天看到你的来信了，真为你感到高兴啊。你说东京的女孩子都很性感的，每天都很养眼，干劲十足啊。天啦，你什么时候变成工作狂了呢？因为日本靠海，你说随便抓一把都是好几斤重的，不用再像我们以前那样去蹲点了。每天生活在这种环境之下，希望你瘦小的身躯能吃得挺拔一些了。记得回来的时候不要忘了给我带几张女优的签名照。谢啦！ May 14 abilityAs an assistant of foreign engineer, communication is always very important. For the name of my job, translator will be better, but an adjective should be added before the name-mechanical.
But which will be the first place, the mechanical knowledge or the translation ability. It is sure they are both important for my job, lacking one will make me in hard situation.
Mechanical knowledge is the source, people can not do mechanical business with a person without major background, especially at the beginning of a large project. I should introduce our products to the customer, who are also professional person. It is hard or impossible for a laical to explain them clearly and accurately. So mechanical knowledge is the basic of my job.
For english ability, it is another kind of topic. I work for German company, and almost my colleagues are foreigners. I should get the idea what they say and express my meaning exactly. Otherwise, my work will be a mess.
The functions of English ability is different from mechanical kownlege's, but their positions are the same. May 12 signaturesone of my friends makes two special signatures for me, and now i want to share them with others.
May 10 nightmaresleepy, sleepy, always feel sleepy, is it my fate? fater, fater, be fater continuously, should i be a big bag? February 26 Obey your own will (First Page)The original theory believes that somebody is born of doing a job, especially in manager selection. The opinion is true as far as it goes, but a very important factor is ignored—that is learning ability. Business administration may be a western phrase. Both commerce and merchant have existed for thousands of years in both eastern and western world. The sole but vital distinguish is its status in different nations. The features of eastern nations, China and other small nations deriving from it, are big and of enormous population. The most decisive factor is that the Far East is the earliest and biggest continent of rice planting. Rice planting means that the field can feed more people, so at that time of no family planning, people bore as much as they can. But they were not conscious about the future or the situation just several years later, and the production in the field never caught up the birthrate, so in old China, most of the people could not get through their lives without starvation and in bad years, the situation was worse. So the governments always paid their attention to how to feed their people and therefore the agriculture has been the first place since the ancient age. People regarded commerce as a cheating, no output and humiliated job. The farmers would not pursuit the career extremely. For one thing their thoughts were stuffy and uncreative because most of them did not receive any education. For another thing they were too poor to have any property to exchange. In the eyes of government, merchant is the objective of grinding, and many wanted to get as much as possible from them. February 10 关于目标的讨论目标，可分为短、中、长三种类型，这应该是从广义上对目标进行分类，而实际生活中大家比较关注的多是短、中期目标。 短期目标应关注细节，主要是近几天的工作、学习安排，应该在脑中作详细的考虑，并以完成常规性任务为目标实现，譬如在学校中学生短期目标应把注意力放在如何课堂听讲、作业完成以及回顾上。短期目标是基础，重在日积月累的工作量上，而无方向性诉求。套用数学上的说法就是，短期目标在短时间内是个标量，它的量应该体现在目标完成的质与量上。短期目标是为中期目标服务的。 中期目标有一定的方向性诉求，并且目标也是相对具体清晰，完成一个目标或为一个学期，或为整个学习阶段，或是工作阶段。目标清晰度主要表现在以一定的数字表示，如学习成绩排名状况，年度销售量等等。中期目标的特点体现在目标制定者往往是被动地为完成目标的可执行性而制定目标，如学生取得好的排名的动机可能只是机械地理解为达到老师和家庭的期望，公司的销售部门完成销售额也是工作性质以及公司的任务所定。完成的目标的动作本身并无褒贬之分，关键是动作背后的动机或思想决定了中期目标的好坏。这样就产生两种截然不同的长期结果：第一种是只会关注近期效益，而忽略目标的可培植性和成长性，从而造成目标主体的夭折或短命，常说的过河拆桥及杀鸡取卵大概就是讲的这种急功近利的做法；第二种是以长期目标为导向，注重生命体的可持续性发展，注重基础以及底蕴的培养，认为中期目标的实现是自身实力的表现而不是的投机的结果。中期目标是战术层面上的概念，而长期目标就是战略意义上的了。中期目标一定范围内也是一个标量。但是从长远看，也就是从长期目标的角度看，最后短、中期目标都会被加个符号，决定符号是正是负的仍然是执行者的动机及是否有前瞻性。 长期目标是不能定下具体物质层面上的目标，只能从意识形态上去泛泛的思考，并且长期目标要根据实际情况不断修修补补，甚至会有方向性改变。即使不作方向性改变，但在对目标在实践中不断添加细节后，或者说是经过若干次螺旋上升后，其可能已面目全非，虽说基本精神不变，但受其影响的中短期目标制定以及实现方法等实际问题操作已有根本性改变。长期目标的另外一个特点就是注重人自身的发展，这既是起点也是终点。 长、中、短三个目标的制定与实现贯彻人的一生，这三个部分是紧密相连、密不可分的，并且在许多情况下并无主次、褒贬之分，考虑问题更要三方兼顾，这样才能真正做到人的可持续发展。 注：以上的基本观点取之于一篇100字左右的英文文章，笔者在这里加入了一些自己的理解以及观点，使之血肉丰满一点。 January 14 the relationship between price and marginThe company sales its products, and the customers buy the products to make use of their functions to produce more benefits. What the customer wants indeed is the margin between cost and production value. So the customers may concern about the margin except for the price of the products. The relationship between cost and margin and how to realize the margin are very important for both the sellers and buyers, especially for the company who sales high-tech products, because if the customers want to make good use of the whole functions of the products, the sellers’ specific help is essential. During the process of building the connection between cost and margin, the main part of sellers and product service staffs’ responsibilities is to help the customers to acquire the whole functions and usages of the products. The price of the products should be according to the functions they can realize. But another important step during sale is to take full advantage of them, if not, the price will trend to a low level. Another factor affecting the price is the product quality. The higher the quality is, the higher the price is. The biggest obstacle blocking the formation of ideal price is that the customers cannot evaluate whether the quality of the products is high or low before buying. And for grinder, a high-tech product, it is essential to explain the usages and functions to the customers and trace the machine status during work January 04 期待葡萄成熟时 - 给所有正在为工作而奔波的人(zz)今晚在看叱咤，听Eason的《葡萄成熟时》，突然狠有感触，觉得这首歌除了讲的是 一段苦恋外，或者还可以有其他的含义。于是，想到了要写点什么，给我那些在这个 时刻感到彷徨的朋友。 当初的坚持 现已令你很怀疑 很怀疑 你最尾等到 只有这枯枝 悉心栽种全力灌注 所得竟不如 别个后辈收成时 这一次 你的很介意 大概是要到了自己找工的时候，才能真正体会到这里面的变数有多少：除了实力，还 有运气，以及其他太多无法说清的因素。因此，结果往往与预期相去甚远。然后，随 之而来的难免是沮丧失落，埋怨上天的不公。这样的心情，我是深有体会，记得我曾 经申请过一个要求与自身条件颇吻合、自我感觉颇有竞争力的职位，却被鄙视得狠彻 底，直到现在，我还是有那么一点点的耿耿于怀  你要静候 再静候 就算失收 始终要守 真的狠喜欢种葡萄这个比喻，最坏的情况可能是连年失收，这足以让最坚强最自信的 人都感到受挫，但是朋友，你必须明白，只有坚持下去才有丰收的可能。上帝永远只 会青睐坚持不懈的人。 日后 尽量别教今天的泪白流 留低 击伤你的石头 从错误里吸收 也许 丰收 月份尚未到 你也得接受 是的，现在流下的汗水和泪水，不过是为了将来酿成成功的美酒。然而你必须有耐心， 去等待那成熟的时机，如果你等待的时间较别人的长，那不过是说明属于你的那杯酒 将比别人更芳香醇厚。今天的天气狠暖和，依稀听到了春天的脚步声。朋友，希望的 季节即将来临了，你看到了吗。 谁都心酸过 哪个没有 原谅我的文笔不够好，有些东西难免词不达意。但是，如果我们拥有过同样的心情， 可以互相安慰，就已经足够。 祝福我那些为工作而奔波的朋友，认识的和不认识的，都可以早日拿到如意的offer  January 01 祝大家新年快乐大家好：
今天是2006年第一天，首先祝大家在新的一年里开开心心，顺顺利利，一定要时刻保持微笑哦。^_^。
好长时间没来更新了，在这里先向大家赔个不是了。主要这大半年大多数时间都在闭关修炼，也就是在实验室里面忙科研工作啦，搞得脑袋就快成了二进制数据流了，叫我写点汉字估计写不出来，没那个灵感了。还好，10月底开始找工作，脑子又慢慢恢复了原来不断灵光闪现的状态。
说到找工作，我就开始感到郁闷了，现在还没有定下来，也就是说我还没有找到工作啦。昨天我们宿舍签了就业协议的林老大请大家吃饭，我也稍微总结了一下这一阶段不顺利的原因，既有方向性的错误，也有准备不足、运气差等因素作用所致。等以后工作定下来一定要好好总结一下，应该可以有许多经验教训可以写的。本命年底不怎么顺利啊，难道是怪我这一年没穿红内裤？呵呵，言重了
 。不管怎么样，转眼就到了2006年了，我也要重新调整心态，积极地去对待生活，学习新的知识。不管遇到什么困难，我都会努力去克服的。 还有一个要表明态度的地方就是以后在更新blog的时候我尽量用英语写，所以预先告知大家准备好金山词霸，哈哈……对不住啦，我也要锻炼英语吗。恩，请大家监督，如果以后行文有错误的话还请高人指出，小弟先在这叩首谢过啦。
就写这么多了，在新的一年里，我们大家一起努力吧，最后还要诚挚地祝福大家家庭美满，事业顺利。
小水 ２００６．１．１ March 18 小议《蝴蝶效应》据说，一些微如蝴蝶振翅的小事能引起横扫半个地球的风暴——混沌理论。影片一开始就给出了主旨，意思是说意思即一件表面上看来毫无关系、非常微小的事情，可能带来巨大的改变。
但在导演的安排下，一些记忆片断的丢失和男主角埃文(艾什顿·库奇饰)不断对这些丢失情节的回忆使观众开始的时候更倾向于认为一部关于记忆方面的心理学影片。随着影片情节的发展，埃文不断的回忆加上一些看似不合乎逻辑与习惯的对白与人物动作使观众的心里面的疑惑越大进而推翻了自己最初的想法，而且只有在看完了整个影片之后并且好好地咀嚼了一番后，你才可能真正这部电影所要告诉我们的。
看了整部影片就像被导演带着在时间的迷宫中游荡了一番，当你一头雾水还在担心影片的情节是否紧扣主题时，导演为你打开迷宫的出口，眼前豁然开朗，刚刚还是风马牛不相及的混混噩噩的一团东西突然间就有了轮廓线，给人一股畅快淋漓的感觉。
要设计这样一个完美的迷宫并不容易，两位导演付出了巨大的努力，6年来他们一直在改写和完善剧本，以至于真正开拍之后，不管多么复杂次序安排他们都已经清楚的铭记在心。这样的努力使得113分钟的长片并不失精致之美，并使你在意犹未尽的回味中感受了一番逻辑之美。。“我们清楚这个大迷宫的每一条小路，那是因为在拍摄之前对每一个镜头处理，拍摄次序乃至细节，都经过了几百次的讨论。”两位导演说，“不过，我们也觉得，能够将超现实主义和现实主义结合起来是一种技术，这能够给导演充分的空间来处理那些富有挑战性的情况。”
影片的类型被定位为类：剧情/科幻/惊悚，TOM网站的点评也是点评也是“比鬼魂更恐怖的记忆阴影”，可是我觉得整部影片并没有什么恐怖的地方，倒是跌宕起伏的剧情和环环相扣的悬念让我确实伤了一番脑筋。情节不断在现实与回忆之间变换，而且两者之间的区别已经变得很模糊：先是回忆，然后回忆变成了现实，然后再回忆，然后……。而且回忆也不是一下子就展现给观众的，埃文的记忆被导演切割成好几段然后慢慢地在钓观众的胃口，但即使这样，导演也并没有放弃在剧情的安排上更上一层楼。影片当中虚幻与现实也相互穿插。当你以为自己已经了解了埃文丢失的记忆后，导演马上用一段完全不同的记忆代替先前的那一段，而且在影片最后导演点了睛：心理医生对埃文说：压根就不存在那些日记（日记为贯穿全剧的一个重要道具，有了它才有了埃文的回忆）！这样的剧情安排使我开始的时候就像处在浪尖上（看到了埃文的回忆），然后被抛到谷底（埃文的记忆变为另外一段截然不同的），蛮以为这样就不会再有变化，但突然之间被抛到更低（日记不存在），导演这样折磨人的脑细胞达到了变态的程度。
导演这样地烘托气氛完全是为了揭示主旨："我们每个人，无论是有意还是无意，都会幻想自己能够改变过去好使目前的状态更好些，或者希望过另一种生活、成为另一个人"，麦卡·格鲁勃说，"这部电影反映的就是这种想法，以及假如我们真这样做的结果"。埃文不断地回忆以及对现实的不承认只是想弥补他自己小时候的过错，用我们自己的话说就是想当事后诸葛亮。一切都已于事无补，但埃文仍沉溺其中，即使到最后他仍幻想着在婴儿的时候就结束自己的生命，从而弥补过错给别人带来幸福。看到这里，我不禁想起现实当中，有多少人沉迷于过去而不能自拔，或留恋昔日的辉煌，目空一切，不求进取；或自责过失，怨天尤人，自怨自艾，对明天丧失信心。我们只有不后悔昨天，把握今天，展望明天才能有一个良好健康的生活态度（呵呵，老生常谈了）！
祝各位生活愉快！ 随笔一闭上眼，各种支离破碎的思绪就雪片似的飞了过来，毫无逻辑性可言。有时候就喜欢躲在被窝里任思绪自由地驰骋，偶尔也会有些许的好句子掠过脑际，但是苦于不想爬起来开电脑，一直就没有记下来。 没有物质和生活基础的思想是苍白无力的，换句话说，有什么样的生活就有什么样的思想。受了儒家思想的熏陶，信奉“三人行必有我师“以及“君子一日三省”，一直以来都奉行谦虚好学的低调性格，注重内在的自我涅磐式的成长。虽说这对修身来说无异于一道正途，也培养了我对历史和哲学的兴趣以及分析能力起到了至关重要的作用，但是在今天的经济大潮下，谁又能独善其身而穷其牛角？ 小时候看电视喜欢问父母哪个是坏蛋，哪个是好人。不经意间听到”坏人有好的一面，好人也有坏的一面“，百思而不解。后来学了一些哲学，加上在生活中也用朴素的辩证思想去看待和解决的一些事，当然最重要的是书本上的宣传，”历来大科学家都是大哲学家“这句颇有鼓动性的话使我这个想当科学家的未泯童心多多少少也为之振奋了许多年，所以”哲学“也时常萦绕在我的心头。 当然，你如果现在再叫我看晦涩难懂的哲学语言，打死我也不干的，即使打小时候就对哲学有想法，说实话我也没读过一本纯哲学的书，一些哲学原理都是在课本上学的。兴趣的培养主要还是从历史书当中来的。这个倒是我一直想炫耀的地方：想当年暑假一个人泡在图书馆读24史，想当年给别人讲道理的时候引经据典，想当年成语和典故背得滚瓜烂熟，……。呵呵，说实话，这些吹牛的话真的还没有对谁讲过，第一我性格低调，第二我觉得能记得住也只不过是个书橱而已，没什么分析能力完全是对我智商的一种侮辱，第三即使炫耀了，那也是已经过去的，没什么好卖弄的（说到这里我好像在扇自己的耳光子，也罢，今天就是写点随笔，看官们也随便看看，好的地方就鼓励鼓励，不妥的，自相矛盾的大伙都来拍拍砖），第四就是我现在很多都忘光了（faint to death）。 不关怎么的，虽说以前的兴趣的出发点都还不是从实用功利角度出发，但对于我整个思维与思想体系的培养仍有着不可磨灭的功绩。如果说到学以致用这个层面上，我觉得我还有很长一段路要走。还是那句话，没有物质根源的思想是没有生命力的。所以，有人说我不成熟也许是有点道理的，虽然大多情况只是从我年纪小来判断。当然，我也没有必要去努力扮成熟，我有我的思想和生命的轨迹。既然安生立命的方向对了，也就没有什么好怕的了。就像有人去评论一个国家的发展一样，如果这个国家的立国之本是民主和自由的，即使在前进的过程中无论有多大的阻力和创伤或者它的底子有多么薄弱，那么这个国家的物质上的繁荣只是时间问题了。 |
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